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Know and understand why we say that God is the author/creator of marriage.

God created Adam and Eve giving them the direction to multiply in the old testament, genesis in the creation story.

The interpersonal skills important to the intimate life of marriage:

Empathy:


self-disclosure:


confrontation:

The 4 styles of miscommunication according to noted therapist Virginia Satir

Blaming:


Computing:


Distracting:


Placate:

The 7 indicators to predict a happy marriage and why they are necessary to a marriage.

1. Healthy Expectations


2. Realistic concept of love


3. a positive attitude/outlook in life


4. the ability to communicate feelings


5. an understanding and acceptance of gender differences.


6. ability to make decisions and settle arguments


7. a common spiritual foundation and goals

The 4 myths associated with marriage

1. We expect exactly the same thing


2. Everything good in our relationship will get better


3. Everything in life will disappear


4. My spouse will me me whole

The different types of relationships

Dependent: A frame


Independent: H frame


Interdependent: M frame

Know the eleven techniques in in communication the Harts' list in Ch24 and be able to explain 5

Look up

Describe William's May's 4 mischievous theories of sex and give examples

Sex as demonic


sex as divine


sex as xasual


sex as nuisance

What is an annulment and why does the church grant it and what is the process?`

Father Martine

Know and be able to explain Gary Chapman's 5 sides of intamacy

Intellectual


Social


Emotional


spiritual


physical

Describe Whitehead's meaning of marriage.

Marriage as mutual love, marriage as commitment, marriage as a lifestyle

Know the two different types of love as described in the new testament

Ageape: love for your mother


Phileo: brotherly love

Know aristotle's models of friendship

Usefulness


pleasure


good

Robert Sterberg's triangle model of love (all variations)

Motivation/passion


emotional/intimacy


commitment/cognitive




Romantic-passion and intimacy


foolish-commitment and passion


companionship- commitment and intimacy



What are the statistics about couples who live together vs. those who marry without living together?

Idk bro youre on your own