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15 Cards in this Set
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Know and understand why we say that God is the author/creator of marriage. |
God created Adam and Eve giving them the direction to multiply in the old testament, genesis in the creation story. |
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The interpersonal skills important to the intimate life of marriage: |
Empathy: self-disclosure: confrontation: |
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The 4 styles of miscommunication according to noted therapist Virginia Satir |
Blaming: Computing: Distracting: Placate: |
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The 7 indicators to predict a happy marriage and why they are necessary to a marriage. |
1. Healthy Expectations 2. Realistic concept of love 3. a positive attitude/outlook in life 4. the ability to communicate feelings 5. an understanding and acceptance of gender differences. 6. ability to make decisions and settle arguments 7. a common spiritual foundation and goals |
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The 4 myths associated with marriage |
1. We expect exactly the same thing 2. Everything good in our relationship will get better 3. Everything in life will disappear 4. My spouse will me me whole |
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The different types of relationships |
Dependent: A frame Independent: H frame Interdependent: M frame |
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Know the eleven techniques in in communication the Harts' list in Ch24 and be able to explain 5 |
Look up
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Describe William's May's 4 mischievous theories of sex and give examples |
Sex as demonic sex as divine sex as xasual sex as nuisance |
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What is an annulment and why does the church grant it and what is the process?` |
Father Martine
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Know and be able to explain Gary Chapman's 5 sides of intamacy |
Intellectual Social Emotional spiritual physical |
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Describe Whitehead's meaning of marriage. |
Marriage as mutual love, marriage as commitment, marriage as a lifestyle |
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Know the two different types of love as described in the new testament |
Ageape: love for your mother Phileo: brotherly love |
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Know aristotle's models of friendship |
Usefulness pleasure good |
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Robert Sterberg's triangle model of love (all variations) |
Motivation/passion emotional/intimacy commitment/cognitive Romantic-passion and intimacy foolish-commitment and passion companionship- commitment and intimacy |
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What are the statistics about couples who live together vs. those who marry without living together? |
Idk bro youre on your own |
