The Side Effects Of Sonakshi's Yes To Marriage

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had the opposite effect that you had today. I saw a Dev who was not happy with what was happening. It is the exact opposite of initial marriage phase. In that Sonakshi said yes to marriage because Ishwari apologized, Asha convinced her and everything, yet she was not really prepared for the consequences. She tried to accept what was happening, the changes, but was unsuccessful. She couldn't stop being a "Bose". Smile . She tried to remain a Bose and do things, which made it even worse. She couldn't tell Dev the truth cause she feared that it would hurt him, to hear about his own family. She also was being pulled by the needs of her family which she couldn't really share with him as she considered herself as an outsider. In the end everything …show more content…
Sonakshi is thinking that Dev is happy doing what he is doing. By giving up his business and staying home. She wants to support him in the decision that she thinks he made without any resentment, But unfortunately he is resenting it and is not happy with his decision. But is not able to say anything as he is the one who actually said he will do it to begin with and then asked for a month time. As you said he was very happy when he gave the presentation because that is what he loves to do. He decided to stay at home hoping to get appreciation and that "thanks" from Sonakshi. But when they taunted him, he was not happy. Even in that scene when Asha is talking about how involved Bijoy was or anything, you can see that Dev is not smiling or saying anything. If he was happy with his decision, he would have chimed in when Bijoy said that he liked Dev's …show more content…
Big smile . One thing that Sonakshi and the Boses are big on is "selflessness". They consider themselves as the messaih's, saviours. LOL LOL . And saintly people are usually selfless. Tomorrow, it will come out that Dev took Shubh to the studio and accidentally went on air, etc. Sonakshi will either ask why he did that or someone will ask him. Even if no one asks him, chances are he himself will reveal saying that he had to go as he wanted to reassure his employees and investors. Sonakshi is not a person to learn from words. She learns through actions, when she actually sees the consequences, more like hands on. She will accept that it is fire only when she gets burned. If not she will not listen to someone telling her that it is fire. If someone tells her that she is selfish, she will not listen. But when she herself will realize that she has been very selfish, by not compromising, she will not be able to stop herself from retrospecting. And she is long overdue. Big smile

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