When Adoption Breaks Down Essay

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Everybody needs a family, no matter your age or mental abilities. Adopting a child or having a child may be different, but both can make you happy in some way. Many kids need a stable home, but can never find that one place where they feel safe and loved. Children may never get the family or home they need because so many people feel that adoption is wrong because some things can go wrong. Things go wrong all of the time and no one says anything about it why can’t adoption be one of them. Many things can bring you happiness. Very few people feel that a child can make you happy, you will be surprised. A study held by the Sahlgrensla Academy at the University of Gothenburg showed that “the quality of life was highest among couples who had …show more content…
Failed adoption cases are not always the child or the parent. A child's mind can be under developed, and that can cause problems within itself. Adopting a child who was neglected during early stages of development can some problems, but that does not make them bad kids. Neglect can cause the prefrontal cortex to not develop correctly. That part of the brain is allows a person to recognize feelings and thoughts of other people.A child will then not be able to realize if they are hurting others so they will not have any remorse for their actions. A parent will have to be prepared to handle the child’s actions and attitude. There are many types of adoptions, but they all mean the same. When someone marries into another family they are known as step-parents, and on occasions that parent will want to adopt the kids who are not their own. If the adoption goes through then the state will recognize them as parent and child. That child will lose all connections to their original parent, and then that child may become very upset. Some children will feel as if they have lost a loved one and may become depressed and rebellious. Most children have their reasons for refusing adoption when a step-parent asks, but sometimes that isn't the only reason adoptions can become difficult. You have to go through so many classes and clearances to just be considered for adoption. You will have to attend

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