A Comparison Of Polygamist Relationship In 'So Long A Letter'

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Register to read the introduction… As a traditional Senegalese woman, she was expected to remarry and have a man take care of her and her children. She was offered to become the wife of her brother-in-law. However, Ramatoulaye decided against this idea, and instead resolved to be an independent woman like her dear friend, and live on her own. Aissatou represented the modern woman that Ramatoulaye was envious of. Therefore, after Modou passed away, it was the perfect opportunity for her to break free from the traditional Islamic ways. Moreover, she really had no desire to be in a polygamist relationship once again.
So Long A Letter is an excellent novel, one that opens up our eyes to new cultures and different ways of life. Being an American, it is very interesting to read about polygamist relationships because that never happens in our society. In contrast, it is such a huge part of the Islamic culture. Ramatoulaye becomes a very strong person by the end of the novel, who was able to make the best of her tragic experience.

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