in their stories from ben reevaluating his life and learning that he has settle for everything and has never really done anything for himself. and the young girl in the new persecutive learning the life lessons of being a mother and the responsibility and care that it come with and learning to forgive her mother and to forgive herself for being so hard on herself and her mother. quoted from her essay “ The scenes never changed only my persecutive” this gives us evidence that her memories and the events in the past never changes but when she looked at them in a different light she understood more and could relate more where as when she was younger she didn 't have enough experience in life an motherhood to truly understand her mother point of view and her own. Ben does the same thing for when he goes on that trip he gain more perspective and life experience so when he looks back on his memories they don 't necessarily change but his point of view on them changes he see them in a new light and see things that he didn 't see before because he didn 't have the life experience or the understanding to catch those
in their stories from ben reevaluating his life and learning that he has settle for everything and has never really done anything for himself. and the young girl in the new persecutive learning the life lessons of being a mother and the responsibility and care that it come with and learning to forgive her mother and to forgive herself for being so hard on herself and her mother. quoted from her essay “ The scenes never changed only my persecutive” this gives us evidence that her memories and the events in the past never changes but when she looked at them in a different light she understood more and could relate more where as when she was younger she didn 't have enough experience in life an motherhood to truly understand her mother point of view and her own. Ben does the same thing for when he goes on that trip he gain more perspective and life experience so when he looks back on his memories they don 't necessarily change but his point of view on them changes he see them in a new light and see things that he didn 't see before because he didn 't have the life experience or the understanding to catch those