Essay On Why I Want To Be Married

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Single to Be Married
Single identifies a person’s relationship status. I am single. The majority of my friends are single. The majority of Americans in my age bracket are single. Still, I suspect the majority of single Americans desire to be married. I do. I believe I am meant to be married because of a strong desire God has given me to be married.
My parents were both nineteen, when they got married. I always thought I would get married, when I was nineteen. When that didn’t happen, it was okay. I was still young. I enjoyed being single. I did have fun going out on dates. However, I never felt God leading me to pursue a relationship with any of my dates. They usually became a good friend. I rationalized my singleness throughout my twenties. I appreciated the freedom I had, as a single young woman. I was able to focus on other things in my life, like traveling, writing, and enjoying my friends and family.
When I turned thirty, my singleness suddenly hit me. I realized
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I never thought I would still be single at this age. People often tell me I look younger than thirty-seven. That makes me smile. I see an attractive woman, when I look in the mirror. I have thick long brown hair, big green eyes, and high cheek bones. I am short and slender. I am very sociable. I am told I have a kind heart. I am not perfect. I know there is someone out there waiting for me. I pray every single day for this man to walk into my life. I know God has perfect timing. I can be patient.
A few weeks ago, I met someone at church. He is in love with Jesus. He is thirty-nine years old. He has never been married. He is soft spoken, shy, and a gentleman. He has dark brown hair, blue eyes, and wears glasses. He is a lot taller than me. I’m not sure what is going to happen, but we have been talking a lot. I am asking the Lord every day, to give me wisdom and discernment. I’ve never looked at someone the way I am looking at him. Could he be the one God picked out for

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