Hagar fails to be sympathetic towards her family as a maiden in a patriarchal society.
At a very young age, Hagar has the task of nurturing her brother, Dan, back to health after he falls into the lake and comes down with pneumonia. Her other brother, Matt, suggests that pretending to be their deceased mother would comfort Dan. “’I can’t Matt.’ I was crying, shaken by torments he never even suspected, wanting above all else to do the thing he asked, but unable to do it, unable to bend enough” (Laurence 25). Medical treatments are not …show more content…
When Marvin leaves for war, Hagar fails to show affection and love towards him. “’Well, you take care now, and be sure to write. You’d better be getting along, or you’ll not get into town in time to catch the train” (Laurence 129). At 17 years of age, Marvin is bridging over to adulthood, and still is not totally dependable. Hagar fails to realize at such a vulnerable time, Marvin needs a comforting mother. Although Hagar wants to express her feelings of love, she is not able to. When Marvin returns from the war, he does not return home, but goes out to the coast, leaving Hagar without her first born