Weddings are a very joyous occasion, not only for the bride and groom , but also for their friends and family that get to join in the celebration. A wedding allows two people who are in love to legally join together and spend their lives together, serving one another in devoted infatuation. It is also a way to show their love to the world and truly enjoy being with each other. Most wedding ceremonies revolve around the traditions of a certain religion, and each religion has its own way of conducting such a ceremony. Each one can be very different or can be similar. In the cases of Buddhism and Muslim traditions, weddings are differing when it comes to the actual ceremony. Buddhist weddings on not entirely focused on religious traditions.
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Next, they will plan the ceremony which will usually be a small gathering of close friends and family members. Buddhist weddings are most often held in the bride’s home, but can also be held in a temple to accommodate more guests. On the day of the wedding, the groom will give the bride her dowry, which incense, food, and jewelry. Then it is time for the cheerful event to begin. The ritual traditionally begins with the hymns Vandana, Pancasila and Tisarana ("Rituals Of A Buddhist Wedding Ceremony - Thailand Wedding Planning Guide"). A prayer will be recited, which can be changed to suit the opinions of the couple. However, some Buddhist priests, or lamas, have written prayers that are used continually. An example of a prayer would be: “Today we promise to dedicate ourselves completely to each other, with body, speech, and mind. In this life, in every situation, in wealth or poverty, in health or sickness, in happiness or difficulty, we will work to help each other perfectly. The purpose of our relationship will be to attain enlightenment by perfecting our kindness and compassion toward all sentient beings” (Cayton).
Again, the focus is solely on the couple’s devotion to serving one another, as well as those around them, rather than praising a celestial being. Although this particular ceremony may seem plain, it focuses on the bond of the husband and wife and the development