Pros And Cons Of Open Adoption

Improved Essays
All around the world there are families that were separated due to adoption, but later on in those families lives they may have decided they want to meet that child sent off into a new life. All around the country states claim that having sealed adoption records and original birth certificates is a form of privacy for the original birth parents. Many families have gone through heartbreak while trying to reach out to these original families due to the policies states have set on adoptions. Having an open adoption means all records are unsealed and easy to get ahold of, as to closed adoption when it is nearly impossible to reach any records at all. Twenty years ago, only one percent of adoptions were open adoptions but now sixty to seventy percent …show more content…
All kinds of adoptions have their forms of risks and benefits and having two sets of parents can be difficult. The adoptees can get stuck in between feeling as if they have to pick a side or trying to not upset each set of parents by spending more time with the other set. But, by keeping adoption records available and keeping the situation open for communication it gives both sets of families to work together and create a plan to give the child the best secured future! The birth mother having a constant relationship with the child is not the only type of open adoption, both families get to agree to their own terms so you do not have to let the mother be a constant visitor. Open adoption is not the only type of adoption, but when considering adoption it has become one of the most successful and popular type of adoption. Having unsealed records for your adopted child can lead to many benefits and make your child’s future less questioned and more

Related Documents

  • Great Essays

    Some adoptive parents also worry that contact will be harmful to their child, that there will be the risk of a negative influence or of developing a negative self-image if the birthparent is an alcoholic or sexually promiscuous (Fisanick 11). Feelings of regret about the adoption decision are another issue with open adoption. Birth parents may feel jealous towards the adoptive parents because they see their child growing up with another family. In some cases, losing a child to adoption is much more painful.…

    • 2336 Words
    • 10 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Superior Essays

    All potential parents must be live scanned, which is a form of fingerprinting that checks to see if they have any criminal records within the state and throughout the country. Since the Fresno County Department of Social Services is involved in the decision making of where child is placed, they can also send their social workers to make unannounced visits to ensure that the child is in the right “forever home” (Kertzman, personal intv. 2015). These home studies are conducted on the perspective adoptive parent(s). Once completed, a finalization hearing is held and the perspective adoptive…

    • 1573 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The Sylvia Thomas Center is for families in Hillsborough County who have: Already adopted Thinking about adopting Or in the process of adopting a child adoptive family happy to be together Staying together as a family takes effort Many Adoptive or Foster Families were in crisis and didn't know what to do next before receiving help from the Sylvia Thomas Center. This nonprofit agency has worked with hundreds of families by providing needed support for challenges, problems and issues that are unique to adopted children. Always free of charge and always confidential.…

    • 263 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    While during adoption you have to fill out tons and tons of paper work and go through a background check just so you are able to take this child home with you. On top of that you may also have to travel and go to court, the…

    • 1307 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Family Bias In Adoption

    • 470 Words
    • 2 Pages

    As an adoptive parent, you realize the beauty and importance of providing a permanent home for a deserving child. With over 100,00 children currently eligible for adoption, it's critical that people continue to open their hearts and their homes to children in need. The whole process truly is a pure expression of compassion and generosity--often having as profound of an impact on parents as it does the child. However, the differences between a natural birth family and an adoptive one are numerous.…

    • 470 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Even if their biological parents are making the final decision, adoptees should not have to go through life confused and identity ridden. Open adoption provides the adoptee with information that can help them understand why their birth parents gave them up for adoption. Openness in an adoption also allows them to develop a sense of self, which is important in the development of their identity. This is not to say that closed adoption is not necessary in some cases, but open adoption should still be considered in every situation. Leaving adoptees in the dark about where they came from is not acceptable because it prevents them from further development.…

    • 1374 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    She founded the Adoption Network of Cleveland and worked tirelessly for twenty-six years till her efforts finally paid off. On December 19, 2013, Governor John Kasich signed Senate Bill 23 into law and gave those “closed era” adoptees a pathway to their past. However, there were some strings attached to this new law. From March 20, 2014 to March 19, 2015, birth parents were given the opportunity to retract their names from the birth certificate, but were required to provide medical background and non-identifying information. They were also able to update their contact information so their adopted child would know how to contact them if they were to request their birth certificate.…

    • 1326 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Another key factor of the Adoption Assistance and Child Welfare Act, is to emphasize family preservation and provide reasonable efforts to reunite children with their families (Chapin, 2017, p.450). The importance of preserving the family includes providing supports and safety plans to decrease the risk of harm for children and prevent future abuse and neglect. Before The Adoption Assistance and Child Welfare act was enacted, “the philosophies, financial incentives, and professional attitudes of the states foster care systems were to save children and not family’s” (Chapin, 2017, p.450). There were an alarming number of children who were growing up in the foster care systems that did not have any connections with their biological families.…

    • 1315 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Having adoptive families lets people know they have a better option than to abort or abandon their baby if they are unable to care for…

    • 543 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    In 2008 only five percent of adoptions were closed (Working With Birth). Open adoptions are more common than closed adoptions. Adoptions that are open indicate the biological family of the child can stay in contact throughout their lives. A closed adoption means the biological family cannot contact the child, however, the child can try to reach out once they reach the age of 18. My own experiences with adoptions indicate that closed adoptions should remain closed.…

    • 1309 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Adopting children through the foster care system has become a viable options for childless families; foster care adoption not only gives children in our country homes, but also the adoptive parent(s) receive numerous benefits from the state and federal government that is not offered for private domestic and international adoption. Private domestic and international adoptions are the most common types of adoption processes being used in the United States. Private domestic adoption are generally done through public adoption agencies to match adoptive children with an adoptive family, the birth mother has the option of choosing the adoptive parent(s) and besides the long wait the cost can be $10,000.00 - $40,000.00 (Domestic Adoption).…

    • 1871 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Adoption has been around since ancient times. Families would adopt a heir to continue the family name if they did not have any sons. Today however, adoption means something different to us. It means bring someone into your family to love, care, and nurture. It means investing time to parent someone else’s child and love it as if it were your own.…

    • 337 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Brilliant Essays

    (Carp, 1998) Rather than split up families, child welfare reformers worked to prevent the factors which caused a family to break up. Reforms resulting from these movements included establishment of the U.S. Children's Bureau in 1912, creation of juvenile courts, and enactment of Mother's pensions. It was around this time that social work become professionalized, as case workers were utilized in family preservation and prevention. Social workers denounced unregulated adoption, and lobbied for state licensing and supervision of child placing agencies. (Carp, 1998) As a result, the 1917 Children's Code of Minnesota was passed.…

    • 3053 Words
    • 13 Pages
    Brilliant Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Adoption is such a beautiful thing that happens in this crazy world that we are living in. Adoption allows children to have lifetime of love and emotions to a forever home with people they get to call family. As known, the process of adopting can be long and tedious, but it is all worth it in the end. Every state has different rules and regulations when it comes to adopting a child.…

    • 962 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    “While adoption can be a life-changing opportunity for families and children in need, it is far from simple” says Katie Bahr in her article titled “The Labor of Adoption” and she is not lying. There are many steps that go into the adoption process, and all of these steps are to get the adoptive parents ready for what they are about to receive…a child. Adoption helps children find loving homes that they have never had before, and also helps parents a child that they will love and cherish for the rest of their lives because they cannot have one themselves or just want to help a child in need. Adoption is a very expensive and difficult process that helps ensure that each child and family who participates is getting the outcome they want and deserve.…

    • 1899 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Superior Essays