Finding your own identity is something everyone does in their life. At times it can be complex and stressful trying to figure out who you really are but at the end it can be really satisfying to see the outcome. The process of finding yourself can be a pleasurable one or an ungraceful one. It can be quick or take years to unravel and the journey to finding that answer can be filled with an abundance of obstacles but overcoming them will get you one step close. I went through these things myself, to find my own identity to be the person I am today and I am content with that.
When I was younger, about 3-5 to be exact, I was EXTREMELY shy. I could not speak to anyone but my parents and family and was extremely terrified of talking to new people. I remember during my first days at preschool I wouldn’t talk to anybody or …show more content…
I’ve started to be more on my own. I mean I was still happy making friends and meeting new people but I was more focused on myself than on others. I was not desperate for attention anymore neither did i want to impress anybody either. And because of that I began making MORE friends trying than not trying. I was absolutely amazed I asked to myself “Where were y 'all when I was trying to be popular?” I liked being more of a loner than being a follower, don’t get me wrong i’m not anti-social or nothing it’s Just that I prefer to keep to …show more content…
Mine was not so great, yours might have been better or could’ve been worse or probably still trying to find your own identity. No matter what the case, one thing that I hold true is that you should always be proud of yourself and don 't let others try to take that from you, don’t let them control your identity and who you are because who you are can be the most beautiful
When I was younger, about 3-5 to be exact, I was EXTREMELY shy. I could not speak to anyone but my parents and family and was extremely terrified of talking to new people. I remember during my first days at preschool I wouldn’t talk to anybody or …show more content…
I’ve started to be more on my own. I mean I was still happy making friends and meeting new people but I was more focused on myself than on others. I was not desperate for attention anymore neither did i want to impress anybody either. And because of that I began making MORE friends trying than not trying. I was absolutely amazed I asked to myself “Where were y 'all when I was trying to be popular?” I liked being more of a loner than being a follower, don’t get me wrong i’m not anti-social or nothing it’s Just that I prefer to keep to …show more content…
Mine was not so great, yours might have been better or could’ve been worse or probably still trying to find your own identity. No matter what the case, one thing that I hold true is that you should always be proud of yourself and don 't let others try to take that from you, don’t let them control your identity and who you are because who you are can be the most beautiful