Believe it or not this is a very powerful message to your subconscious. By using WHEN you are sending out message that you are working on it and it is just a matter of time. Your happiness and peace of mind is not far. More importantly, it is in your control because you are taking actions in life to make it happen. The work is in progress and you look forward to it. That’s the power of the word WHEN.
Let’s talk about But now. In English ‘but’ is a conjunction word – it combines 2 sentences like the word ‘and’. The problem is when you use ‘but’ to combine 2 sentences, the second sentence “cuts” the first one. Let me explain with few examples: 1. I would love to see you but I’m busy doing….. 2. I agree with what you are saying but …. 3. I’m 100% with you on this but I think …
In all the above examples the first part is highly positive. As soon as you use but you just cancelled it with what you would say next. It doesn’t matter what you said before saying ‘but’, the listener will only remember and concentrate on what you say after