The Importance Of A Healthy Relationships

Starting a fresh relationship with someone is always fun and interesting. They might teach you new things throughout time and also bring out new things about yourself that you probably didn’t know. Meeting someone new brings high hopes. It is always a good feeling knowing that person has the same interest in you as you do for them. A person might come into your life while you are going through something stressful, so that person can turn into an escape from all the drama going on in your life. Causing that person to mean a lot towards you in a short period of time. This can be both, good and bad. Starting a relationship can be great and amazing but sometimes unfortunately some relationships take a bad turn. Everyone is different so every …show more content…
For example, if a couple gets into an argument and one starts calling the other unnecessary names it can make the argument worse. Choosing your words wisely in any situation is always the best thing to do. You can’t take words back after it is already said. Also, respecting boundaries is very important. A couple should understand and respect their partner’s personal boundaries regarding time together or apart and physical contact. If you find yourself usually making excuses for your partner, he or she may be taking advantage of you without you realizing it. It is up to you to protect your value and your boundaries from anyone who would undermine them. Showing respect to your partner can be rewarding. As many usually say “to be respected one must show respect”. If for some reason you can’t seem to find respect for one another than either both or one partner needs to reconsider why they are in a …show more content…
This style usually flows out of low self esteem and a need to be loved by one 's partner. Lovers of this sort usually become very possessive and jealous. Agape is based on selflessness. In this style of love, the individual is willing to sacrifice anything for their partner. It is based on an unbreakable commitment and an unconditional, selfless love. Self focus is the key to having a healthy relationship as well. Don’t let your life revolve around them, you still need to think about yourself. Although, you want to be with them, you can’t forget and neglect the other people you have relationships with. For examples your friends and family. Once someone starts dating someone they close all doors sometimes just to be with that person. At the end of the day your friends and family have been there through it all so shutting them out just because you are in a relationship isn’t healthy. Also, Keep your mind set on your hope, dreams, and future plans. Don’t change your plans just because of someone new in your life. For example not going away to college, dropping out of school just to be with that person. If your partner truly loves you it will always work out no matter the circumstance. Also asking for too much from someone could overwhelm the other and slowly start to push them