Decentering the Self in the Technological Age Essay

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Decentering the Self in the Technological Age

In a beautiful park, at the gazebo, stand my two friends, Avatar and Lewia. The wizard is performing the ceremony, and all is going very well. After many hours of intimate chat and romantic evenings together, today Avatar and Lewia are to be married - on the internet. This is the height of immersion to MUDlife. Life on the internet is affecting more people than many of us like to admit. I am interested in discussing the reasons for and repercussions of this sort of immersion.

The above description actually did occur, several years ago. It was around the time of the first real explosion of the world wide web, when the internet was reserved for "computer geeks" like myself. The
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It is often the case that adults do not understand computer systems as well as their children, so the excuse "I'm doing homework" works all too often. I think Turkle is right when she says "parents ... do need to learn enough about computer networks to discuss with their children ... and lay down some basic safety rules." (p. 227). Children have always attempted to rebel from parental control and to act more "grown up". The internet provides a new outlet for this. Children, like my friends, can have virtual sex, and even get virtually married. The danger comes when MUDlife begins to substitute for real life. Turkle describes Stewart, a person that uses the internet as a remedy for loneliness and psychological despair. Children who use internet chat rooms are still learning about relationships and social structure. When exposed to the free and often graphically sexual universe of the MUD, I fear that the seeds for a "life on the screen" are planted. They may learn that it is ok to leave a "room" during a conversation, to disconnect and disappear after sex, and to misrepresent themselves to others.

Internet chat is not used only by children and those who are "socially ill-at-ease" (Reid) but often is a useful medium for discussion among adults from around the world. For example, Turkle describes a woman who

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