Dealing With Divorce

Divorce is one word that ties a million feelings together. Usually the word divorce is a word that no person or child ever wants to hear. Divorce is simply the understanding of a marriage not working out, but it means so much more. This word can tare relationships apart, feelings, and depression. The affects and events following a divorce are never a good experience. In America the divorce rates dramatically increase yearly by double the amount. The unfortunate event leads to many complications such as marriage at a young age, affairs, arguing too much, and simply working too much. During a divorce many people, feelings and affects are at stake. Money and valuables become a main argument and what person will be getting what, along with gifts, …show more content…
Each child feels that their family is being completely ripped apart, loss of dramatic stability, and just complete shock. This event can completely change a child’s behavior change, influence on hatred toward one parent, and ultimate lifetime decisions. Children develop trust issues and unstable lifetime relationships. These children are also likely to develop depression or simply poor academic performances due to consistent unstable home life. Dealing with divorce is a serious issue for children and it is important to provide as much support as possible and constantly be civil with the other parent. A child’s wellbeing is the most important at stake when dealing with divorce. The amount of stress and feelings that come with divorce have baggage that affect children internally and carry on into the future. Last but not least children will always be missing what they have lost and what they could potentially loose again. The grief of missing out and losing a piece of their soul is completely despairing. Children of divorce always wonder what has happened with their other parent. Some children have to move to different cities and see their other parents adopt a whole new life. Even happy moments in life can be overpowered by the curiosity of loss. Feeling alone and alienated through a divorce can be burned into constant feelings of a child. Being reminded of the little things like constantly saying I love you and being understanding that the child has love for both parents is a big step in the child’s recovery from the divorce. But most importantly, it is very important to show respect between the other parent and to never put full blame on the parent. Children learn the most by observing and watching what their role models do, and plan on putting the words into