Comparison Of Different Views On Young Relationships

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My views on young relationships are a polar opposite to my views on friendships. I see that too often, far too often we cling to someone who isn’t good for us just because they offer the occasional comfort. We are scared that we won’t ever be able to find someone like the person we are currently into. But truth be told there will be and we need to find someone who is really right for us, not simply convenient at the time. We need to be able to let go more quickly of relationships that don’t make us better people and hinder our growth. I do understand that letting go of someone that you have developed a relationship with over time can be scary. However the prospect of not reaching your potential and suffering through constant frustration because of an inability to let go of something that is harming you is more frightening.
Realize that the comfort a person offers, be it words, intimacy, gifts or just a human bond can be found elsewhere. This probably sounds cruel, and we think how you could say something about someone we once had strong feelings for? People change. Maybe they were
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You don’t have to be picture perfect and the envy of all your peers. That’s not the point, and the people that think it is have missed something. Sure everyone would like it that way but it doesn’t matter at all. Just being there for someone and making a terrible day somewhat bearable is far more beautiful than a picture of two models driving a Range Rover with three perfect kids. Don’t let the world’s perception on what all relationships should be change your idea. Being in a relationship with someone isn’t for attention or to make others jealous. It isn’t to satisfy others and make them view you in a way you desire. It is deeper than that, and many may not see that. Use a connection with someone to help both of you find happiness, not to look charming for the

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