Break Up Research Paper

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YOU ARE NOT ALONE
A grown man or woman being torn to pieces over a relationship gone bad, yes that happens all the time. Only you know the reasons why your relationship has hit the skids, but I know it is especially painful when it is something that you may have done to help cause the break up. How can this be happening to me? I can’t eat, I can’t sleep and I am unable to concentrate at work. When will this ever end? I would rather have someone break one of my legs because at least I know that it will feel better in about 6 weeks but this doesn’t seem like this will ever stop hurting.
Sometimes the thing that I found that helped the most was to seek out friends and family that could relate to the pain I was in. I spent endless hours
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I suffered through depression, anxiety, loneliness, stress, loss of income and the list could go on Ad infinitum. So it is safe to say that I understand what an unwanted break up can do to a person, I have suffered through it firsthand. This may paint a pretty good picture of what some of you may be feeling and experiencing right now. Not all of our situations are the same but a lot of our feelings are. That is why THISBREAKUPSUCKS.COM is here, to help you through this time in your life by sharing our experiences and by suggesting some things that have worked for us, also to let you know that you are not alone and are going to be ok.
We believe it is important to recognize that you are in pain and it hurts, but not to stay in it for a prolonged period of time which can be very harmful to you in body, mind and spirit. We believe that staying in such emotional states can have negative effects on your other relationships, including; our work status, the ability to care for ourselves, and can have a negative effect on anyone we come into contact with. THISBREAKUPSUCKS.COM is here to walk you through the process of healing. Be patient and have the courage to walk through to the other side because there is a bright sunny day waiting for

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