When Elisa cares for her flowers and acts as if they were her own children it is a display of a feminine quality. However in her relationship with Henry, her masculine image is what Henry sees because of the well-swept and polished wood in the house and her work ethic keeping the house tidy and caring for her garden. Henry does not see her feminine qualities such as care and love. (Steinbeck). Elisa’s relationship with her husband is not an ideal marriage because she feels as if he does not appreciate or acknowledge her feminine qualities. Because Elisa feels this way, she thinks that her husband does not appreciate her flowers either. There is resentment towards henry because he fails to see Elisa’s needs causing discontent between the two. Even though Henry fails to see Elisa’s needs, she too does not trey to explain her self to her husband and rather keep silent. Elisa is left vulnerable when Henry doesn’t recognize her needs and what the chrysanthemums mean to her, especially when he says that he wishes she would work in the orchard patch and grow apples just like she grows her flowers
When Elisa cares for her flowers and acts as if they were her own children it is a display of a feminine quality. However in her relationship with Henry, her masculine image is what Henry sees because of the well-swept and polished wood in the house and her work ethic keeping the house tidy and caring for her garden. Henry does not see her feminine qualities such as care and love. (Steinbeck). Elisa’s relationship with her husband is not an ideal marriage because she feels as if he does not appreciate or acknowledge her feminine qualities. Because Elisa feels this way, she thinks that her husband does not appreciate her flowers either. There is resentment towards henry because he fails to see Elisa’s needs causing discontent between the two. Even though Henry fails to see Elisa’s needs, she too does not trey to explain her self to her husband and rather keep silent. Elisa is left vulnerable when Henry doesn’t recognize her needs and what the chrysanthemums mean to her, especially when he says that he wishes she would work in the orchard patch and grow apples just like she grows her flowers