The girl in the story Connie, is a fifteen-year-old girl that stayed home one day while her family was gone. The night before she had saw a man named Arnold who saw Connie the night before. Arnold was a guy that was stalking her, and practically knew everything about her. Arnold forced her to do something she was not comfortable with, but that didn’t stop him from getting what he wanted. Connie had no say in what she did and was forced by Arnold to follow his orders. He forced her by saying “Maybe you better step out here, he said, and this last was in a different voice. It was a little flatter, as if the heat was finally getting to him.” (Joyce Oates pg.7). Collin didn’t even know this man well, and Arnold made it seem like he already claimed Connie by calling her “honey”. Men seem to always think they 're a level higher than women and know better. The theme of the story shows how women were not just treated but how men think they have the right to control a women and her thoughts. No matter what age or whether you 're a man or a woman, you should never be forced to do something you don’t want to do. But this goes back to day in age on women were forced to do things maybe they weren 't comfortable with. Women didn’t have much say from the “The Chrysanthemums”, and
The girl in the story Connie, is a fifteen-year-old girl that stayed home one day while her family was gone. The night before she had saw a man named Arnold who saw Connie the night before. Arnold was a guy that was stalking her, and practically knew everything about her. Arnold forced her to do something she was not comfortable with, but that didn’t stop him from getting what he wanted. Connie had no say in what she did and was forced by Arnold to follow his orders. He forced her by saying “Maybe you better step out here, he said, and this last was in a different voice. It was a little flatter, as if the heat was finally getting to him.” (Joyce Oates pg.7). Collin didn’t even know this man well, and Arnold made it seem like he already claimed Connie by calling her “honey”. Men seem to always think they 're a level higher than women and know better. The theme of the story shows how women were not just treated but how men think they have the right to control a women and her thoughts. No matter what age or whether you 're a man or a woman, you should never be forced to do something you don’t want to do. But this goes back to day in age on women were forced to do things maybe they weren 't comfortable with. Women didn’t have much say from the “The Chrysanthemums”, and