David Blankenhorn is an founder at the institute for Americans. David believes that first we need to accept that we live in a new time era. In this new time era that we live in now marriage has shifted then what it used to be. He explains this by breaking down the era of when our grandparents got married. During our grandparents generation it was forced upon. You didn’t marry a person based on just what satisfied you when you got married you joined a commitment that had authority and you had to act upon any rules given to you. Your freedom was limited and being a woman didn’t make things any easier. Today David Blackenhorn believes before vows were the only meaning that …show more content…
Elaine Taylor May has a similar but yet an different approach of why the statics of divorce are what they are. Elaine believes that now Americans are simply just marrying for love. People now have a more need for commitment and they want to express themselves as a couple through love. Now people don’t need to marry for the same reasons that they needed to back in the past. Elaine also tells us that the decrease and increase is not anything new that we been aware of this back in the past when the birth rate went down and people choose to be