Other soldiers in the novel carried around pictures of girls they loved back home. This serves as evidence that these men, American soldiers in Vietnam, were not trying to exclude women from their war experience, yet the soldiers were seemingly attempting to bring women with them.
Lorrie Smith argues that Tim O’Brien pushes the theme of a gendered war; one that oppresses femininity among the characters in The Things They Carried. Smith believes that Tim O’Brien made a concerted effort to silence the womanly character about the effect that the war had on her. However, a female character, a girl named Mary Anne, exemplifies quite the display of female independence in the story, “The Sweetheart of the Song Tra