Women In Romantic Comedies

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I think I know why the women in Romantic Comedies end up so happy
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So far, words of encouragement lie on every social media platform with hopes that 2017 serves as a fresh start for us all (especially us women) and that we all get fit, find love and kick ass without busting our asses. But of course, I believe that parts of the past that need to be acknowledged before we pledge our allegiance to a successful 2017.

It wasn't till one November morning (2015) while celebrating my mother's birthday that what seemed like my most genius plan of finishing community college and moving to New York in the next year looked more disarranged than the eggs on my plate. My dreams of working in the fashion industry had stuck with me since the
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Pr. Kory Cassell preached a sermon one day on how when he was a child, he would always sit on the floor next to his mother would cross stitch. After seeing the bottom of the craft being all tangled and messy, he became curious as to why his mother would possibly be working on something unattractive and unorganized. As he continued to tell the story, he went on to say that the day his mother finished, she asked if he wanted to see the finished product, skeptical he agreed and she showed him the beautiful landscape she had made. Though it was fairly complex from the bottom, when you looked at the plan from the top you could see that every meticulous part of the masterpiece was needed and that all that was missing was the right perspective. (LINK BELOW: Starts at 27:05) So I let that marinate in my mind. Looking back at first I was never satisfied with what I was doing but now I've finally I allowed myself to focus on the bigger picture. Joy over happiness. So from that day forward, I decided to not allow the small insignificant things to define my entire future. I can't promise I won't be stressed but I can promise to think twice about what it is I'm stressing about. Just this year alone, I started saying "Yes" to a lot of things I would usually turn down and found that the "Yes" brought me more joy than I expected and some of those things allowed me to understand what I …show more content…
As for me, 2017 is the year of self-discovery and learning to become victorious with the cards you are dealt with and ultimately making the most of it. There is absolutely no doubt that with the greatness that success brings; trial and error are never far behind it. With that being said, this year, I'm excited to bring more than fashion to the table. This year is the year of fresh perspective and I believe it's a year of conquest so I will be expanding my range of blog posts on posts that matter to me &

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