Love is blind. When a man and women develop feelings for one another, diverse factors like ethnicity, nationality, cultural background or even age gap would be looked over upon. However based on Clawford's essay, having a partner with huge age gap could arise some problems. She mentioned that it would affect the people's perception towards the couple and roused some gossips such as suspecting their relationship as a 'foul play'. (Jessica Clawford, Handling Big Age Gap Relationships.) Not only it affects the external parties, Clawford listed several problems that would affect the internal parties' relationship as well.
First, Clawford emphasized that not only their age are far apart, but their perspectives and experience are just as distant. It is an inevitable fact that …show more content…
After all, older men would sustain your emotional needs often because of his mature perspective. “When you think you’ve got serious problems with pulling your life together, the older man is there to tell you not to worry, it takes lots of time and effort to succeed.” (Jessica Klein, 17 reasons Why you Date Older Men.) This problem can be tackled by letting the partners discuss about their maturity issue. Perhaps, the older counterpart could see the youth that energized him a long time ago from his partner. It also encourages the younger partner to be more confident and feel relieve from the future because he/she already has a guide. All in all, they shouldn't even try to change one another; “it would only end in a disaster.' (Colleen Clawford, Handling Big Age Gap Relationships).
Another argument Clawford throws into the board is the issue slightly related to the third party's opinion about this particular couple segment. When your peers viewed your relationship negatively, it would automatically would make your feel insecure, this would affect your relationship and caused arguments. Humans are social beings; they seek
First, Clawford emphasized that not only their age are far apart, but their perspectives and experience are just as distant. It is an inevitable fact that …show more content…
After all, older men would sustain your emotional needs often because of his mature perspective. “When you think you’ve got serious problems with pulling your life together, the older man is there to tell you not to worry, it takes lots of time and effort to succeed.” (Jessica Klein, 17 reasons Why you Date Older Men.) This problem can be tackled by letting the partners discuss about their maturity issue. Perhaps, the older counterpart could see the youth that energized him a long time ago from his partner. It also encourages the younger partner to be more confident and feel relieve from the future because he/she already has a guide. All in all, they shouldn't even try to change one another; “it would only end in a disaster.' (Colleen Clawford, Handling Big Age Gap Relationships).
Another argument Clawford throws into the board is the issue slightly related to the third party's opinion about this particular couple segment. When your peers viewed your relationship negatively, it would automatically would make your feel insecure, this would affect your relationship and caused arguments. Humans are social beings; they seek