Downdraft 5
Someone once asked me if I could write a book about myself what would the title be and how do I see the ending of my life. I would title my book, “Why Naughty is the New Nice”. The reason for this title is because I am probably one of the nicest people you’ll ever meet. I would do absolutely anything for anyone. Always being the nice girl means I work my ass off to get others to like me because I cannot stand to think that anyone hates me. I usually go out of my way to do favors for others but get absolutely nothing in return. I try my damnedest to please everyone, but in the end people just take advantage of me. I also have a really hard time with confrontation. I never go out of my way to pick a fight with anyone. This makes …show more content…
They treat me like I am an old, dirty, nasty piece of chewed gum on the bottom of their shoe. For example, Dave, a good friend of my husband, was posting pictures of our son on his Facebook. I do not know any of the people Dave is friends with on Facebook so I texted him asking if he would please not post anymore pictures. He apologized and said he wouldn’t do it anymore. Within about 15 minutes there were a lot more pictures of our son posted. Come to find out, my in-laws were at Dave’s house and told him to ignore me and that it was okay for him to post the pictures since he is their grandkid. I don’t do anything to them, nor have I ever done anything to them that would cause for me to be treated like that and because I am so nice and respectful I keep my mouth shut. What I really want to tell them is to go jump off a super high bridge or learn the meaning of respect. I feel like I unintentionally push people into liking me by asking them if they need anything, or going out of my way to be overly sweet. After a while, I think people tend to get turned off by it and start to question how someone can be that nice. I think if it’s my personality to just be nice and polite, then why should others have an issue with it? I am not harming them. Most of the time I just wish we could all get
Someone once asked me if I could write a book about myself what would the title be and how do I see the ending of my life. I would title my book, “Why Naughty is the New Nice”. The reason for this title is because I am probably one of the nicest people you’ll ever meet. I would do absolutely anything for anyone. Always being the nice girl means I work my ass off to get others to like me because I cannot stand to think that anyone hates me. I usually go out of my way to do favors for others but get absolutely nothing in return. I try my damnedest to please everyone, but in the end people just take advantage of me. I also have a really hard time with confrontation. I never go out of my way to pick a fight with anyone. This makes …show more content…
They treat me like I am an old, dirty, nasty piece of chewed gum on the bottom of their shoe. For example, Dave, a good friend of my husband, was posting pictures of our son on his Facebook. I do not know any of the people Dave is friends with on Facebook so I texted him asking if he would please not post anymore pictures. He apologized and said he wouldn’t do it anymore. Within about 15 minutes there were a lot more pictures of our son posted. Come to find out, my in-laws were at Dave’s house and told him to ignore me and that it was okay for him to post the pictures since he is their grandkid. I don’t do anything to them, nor have I ever done anything to them that would cause for me to be treated like that and because I am so nice and respectful I keep my mouth shut. What I really want to tell them is to go jump off a super high bridge or learn the meaning of respect. I feel like I unintentionally push people into liking me by asking them if they need anything, or going out of my way to be overly sweet. After a while, I think people tend to get turned off by it and start to question how someone can be that nice. I think if it’s my personality to just be nice and polite, then why should others have an issue with it? I am not harming them. Most of the time I just wish we could all get