Why Is Abuela Important To Me

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The majority of people have something or someone they’re attached to, whether it has been there his or her whole life or just a short period of time. For me, that’s my Abuela (grandma in Spanish). She has always been there for me, she’s grown up with me, and she had helped me with certain skills and situations. Abuela has been a constant companion and provider of all of my needs. From the start, she has supported me in all of my endeavors. I could attempt a new sport, and she would support me, even if I wasn’t that exceptional at it. For example, when I tried out for a girls’ basketball team, she was my biggest fan, and provided comfort me when I didn’t make the team. She’s always been proud of me, regardless of my accomplishments or defeats.
This mighty woman has grown up with me. As soon as my mother told her that she was pregnant was me, my abuela moved out of the place she had called home for years so that she could dwell with me. She was willing to leave Puerto Rico, where all her memories are, just for an unborn child, me. Ever since then, she’s always lived with me. Where I went, she went. Without her staying, I
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She taught me how to clean, cook, and many of life’s many important traits like loyalty and honesty. My whole life would have been majorly different if she hadn’t moved here. I would have grown up not being able to truly acknowledge and understand my Puerto Rican heritage. My mom wouldn’t have been able to help me because she was always gone with the military. She never worked or got a job just to be my full time caretaker while my parents worked. My abuela took on the full responsibility of caring for me, loving me, and teaching me in a heartbeat. When there was some bump in the road of my life, she would know and help me through it. She would sit me down, talk to me, and give me advice. I wouldn’t have been able to go through half of the drama I went through had it not been for

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