I’m not the most outgoing guy so I struggle to meet new people or hold up conversations. I think of shooting hoops like a lot of adults think of golf. It’s a great way to get to know someone without feeling pressured to keep a conversation going. When I’m shooting hoops with someone, awkward silences are just silences, because we’re more focused on making a shot than trying to talk to each other. I actually thrive socially when I don’t have to keep a conversation flowing for long periods of time. Lots of acquaintances turned into friends through shooting hoops and to this day, whenever I need to get to know someone I suggest playing some ball. Recently a friend of mine returned from college on a break and I was nervous about having to break the ice with him again. We met on our usual court and everything was back to normal
I’m not the most outgoing guy so I struggle to meet new people or hold up conversations. I think of shooting hoops like a lot of adults think of golf. It’s a great way to get to know someone without feeling pressured to keep a conversation going. When I’m shooting hoops with someone, awkward silences are just silences, because we’re more focused on making a shot than trying to talk to each other. I actually thrive socially when I don’t have to keep a conversation flowing for long periods of time. Lots of acquaintances turned into friends through shooting hoops and to this day, whenever I need to get to know someone I suggest playing some ball. Recently a friend of mine returned from college on a break and I was nervous about having to break the ice with him again. We met on our usual court and everything was back to normal