Why I Hate Public Speaking

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I hate public speaking; although hate is a harsh word, but I do. It’s the stress of picking one subject out, memorize it, and to stand in front of people to deliver the speech. Yes, I have stage fright. I hate speech and I hate public speaking. Scientist say that speech anxiety can start from you being a shy child, which is true, because I was one and I am still shy. According to an article in the Boston Globe, public speaking is the number one fear of Americans! Three out of every four people suffer from speech anxiety, that 75% of people who is afraid of public speaking. It’s been proven that women are as equally affected as men, but it is true that men seek more help to cure it then women do. Although there is no scientific way to prove

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