Parents who live through their child’s accomplishments, who are sometimes trying to relive their own experience or one they missed out on, can put excessive stress on the child to win, with no room for second place. Stressing the importance of winning and putting too much emphasis on perfection can have a damaging psychological impact on a young athlete’s self-image. Luke Anderson, a junior baseball player at Shawnee Mission East, said, “I never perform well with my dad watching. He always stresses me out and I feel like he is judging, and trying to critique my every move.” Many others share similar views to Luke, in that often times pressure imposed by parents can be un-nerving and distracting, and ultimately effect performance in a game. Parents always “want what is best for their kid” but can get caught up in the competition and make it not fun for the
Parents who live through their child’s accomplishments, who are sometimes trying to relive their own experience or one they missed out on, can put excessive stress on the child to win, with no room for second place. Stressing the importance of winning and putting too much emphasis on perfection can have a damaging psychological impact on a young athlete’s self-image. Luke Anderson, a junior baseball player at Shawnee Mission East, said, “I never perform well with my dad watching. He always stresses me out and I feel like he is judging, and trying to critique my every move.” Many others share similar views to Luke, in that often times pressure imposed by parents can be un-nerving and distracting, and ultimately effect performance in a game. Parents always “want what is best for their kid” but can get caught up in the competition and make it not fun for the