“True love”. Do these words truly mean something? Everyday many people are looking for its meaning, but some people, they just give up and believe that it is not true. Nothing lives forever, one day things we love will be gone, people we know will leave, and the horrendous thing to say is thereafter you will also be the one who leaves everything behind. But do those things really matter? For someone to be adored, to be remembered, and to be mourned when they are gone, is that what we call true love?
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Will you give yourself, heart and soul, knowing this is the one person who can hurt you the most? Sometimes these questions run into your mind, leaving you the hardest decision to make in your life. There are times in our lives that we need to experience pain, a time when it is hard to forget and it hurts to remember. There is nothing wrong in holding on to the memories of the person we once loved. But we can’t let it restrain the rest of our lives. Yesterday must never keep us from today’s reality. We need to take a risk in order to learn or to know what is better and what is worse. If you never venture you will never perceive. Love is a leap of faith; you might have a atrocious experience in love, but that’s doesn’t mean you will get distressed again. At least we need to seize the leap, as it might be the only transportation you have to move forward. Ultimately, one day you will realise that taking that leap is the most important thing you ever did. In The Fault in Our Stars, Augustus never let his past dominate his present life. He takes chances in the situation, where everything seems to be impossible, and that’s the reason why he makes his life worth living. Despite this, he had desolate memories with his ex-girlfriend Caroline before, as Caroline passed away with brain cancer. Augustus mentioned that she had changed because of the cancer. She was discourteous, and doesn’t comprehend what love is any longer. Even though, it is not her fault to be in that situation, still it hard for Augustus to be in a relationship with a person who doesn’t know how to love. Some would say that those circumstances should make him not want to fall in love with a person with cancer, however that didn’t affect him. He was willing to take a chance with Hazel, even after Hazel told him that she is a grenade. “You don’t get to choose if you get hurt in this world, but you do have some say in who hurts you, and I like my choice”. Given to