Why Are Arguments Important In Testing A Growing Relationship

Arguments are important in testing a growing relationship. They truly can show aspects of a person that is furrowed into their character. I have had many arguments with my mom which is natural. I am a teen and she's an adult so we think we are right but also we have different levels of experience and wisdom. From all of these quarrels and despite our disagreements, I think I am much more similar. My mother likes to talk a lot about astrology and horoscopes. She honestly doesn't know a crazy amount of information. She doesn't know when Jupiter crosses Neptune, she doesn't know why my stars are not aligned but she does subscribe to a daily horoscope. And because of this, she correlates your personality with your sign. The interesting part is that my mom and I have the same sign, Taurus. Now a Taurus is loyal, trustworthy, yet stubborn, and I can agree that my mom and I are both very stubborn which is most likely the source of most of our shouting …show more content…
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