Who Wouldn T Want A Wife By Judy Brady

Improved Essays
Who Wouldn’t Want a Wife? During the 1960’s and throughout the 1970’s women were fighting to become part of the work force. Many husbands didn’t allow their wives to work outside the typical house. Many women were expected to do a list of “inside work” that was often timely. Throughout this time period women became upset with the lack of appreciation they were given. This lack of appreciation led to the publishing in 1972 of the classic essay “ Why I Want a Wife”, where author Judy Brady uses the technique of pathos to connect to her audience on why she would want a wife.
In paragraph one Brady establishes that she is a wife and mother. She states;.......“I belong to a classification of people known as wives. I am A Wife. And, not altogether

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    During the mid seventeenth and eighteenth centuries in New England, women were not just the typical housewives. The impact they had was unimaginable. Laurel Thatcher Ulrich wrote Good Wives to explain the roles of women’s lives and explain the neglected aspects people never considered. Furthermore, she wrote this book to describe these changing roles of the world people thought “men” controlled.…

    • 897 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    “In a marriage, men were expected to rule over their wives, and all property (except in some cases property acquired by the woman before marriage) belonged to the husband” (Clive Emsely, Tim Hitchcock, & Robert Shoemaker, “Historical Background-Gender in The Proceedings”Par.2.line.4-6.).A woman’s role back then was to get married and to be a house wife. Women had to maintain the up keep of the house, care for the children, and do what she was told to do by her husband.” If your husband could afford to hire help, the wife would get a break from some of the duties” (History of marriage in America: 1800’and early 1900’s.). If woman had a job it was a low paying job and the types of jobs that were available to them were teaching, nursing, and domestic service. Some women even worked on the farm with their husbands.…

    • 1884 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Great Essays

    Women Vs Women

    • 1721 Words
    • 7 Pages

    Unfortunately, these desires and dreams were often put on hold, seen as necessary for women to have. The necessities women were believed to need was food and shelter, while the men are the providers for the household. While women were expected to stay home, the expectations for men to support the house was tremendous. An idea that women were to get married, have children, and take care of household duties was a belief that coincides with this statement saying, “working class men argued for a ‘family wage’ that would make it possible for women to avoid wage work outside the home” (Who Built America?…

    • 1721 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    In the essays “Stay-at-Home Dads: A Practical Solution to the Career Woman’s Dilemma” by Glenn Sacks and “I Want A Wife” by Judy Brady, both a male and a female express their opinions on gender family issues and how it affects their lives. Glenn Sacks, is a columnist and a radio talk show host who focuses primarily on men’s and father issues. In the essay Sacks specifically voices his opinion on why and how the SAHD is beneficial to the family environment. Judy Brady wrote an essay, “I want a Wife”, describing why she wants a wife and all of the ways she can take advantage of having a wife. No matter who the breadwinner is, if the family is happy with their active roles than there is no problem.…

    • 596 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Did the passage of years affect how society views the role of women, or do we still view women as housewives? In the United States, women earned the right to vote in 1920s and after couple of years they were able to become involved in the society. Even though women have equal rights as men, there are certain expectations that society forces on the women, such as, house chores. When we see men as house husband, we see this act as heroic and we get amazed by those acts.…

    • 1310 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    The logos that Judy Brady uses is not usual facts and statistics that most people associate will evidence but cultural ideas that were known in the time period. In the 1990’s women were expected to, “take care of the children,” and “keep the house clean”(229). She uses this throughout the essay uses a list of duties that a wife were to perform as logos. To help back up her cultural ideas, she uses her different examples of ethos to make her logos believable. Without out her use of ethos, the logos would be unbelievable especially since she uses a lot of humor and sarcasm.…

    • 104 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    “One winter evening she looked at them: the husband durable, receptive, gentle; the child tender golden three. The sight of them made her so sad and sick she did not want to see them ever again” (Godwin 1). Gender roles in the 70’s tell us that being a successful woman means being a good wife and mother and taking care of her family. “A Sorrowful Woman” by Gail Godwin portrays the story of a mother who is going against the roles given to her by society. The woman in the story is seen as mentally ill, but in actuality she is challenging the gender roles assigned to her by not wanting to be a wife and a mother and hiding herself away and trying to discover what her true passions are.…

    • 1260 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Sheilah O’Donnel story like any other successful women who have left their professional career to stay home. She works in a competitive training program in Oracle, the technology company, and she was earning at 500,000 a year. O’Donnel career takes a turn when she has her first two children and begin to work less days and make only a quart of her earnings. However, two-career household was not an easy thing when decided chores and responsible, because she a woman and a mother, she was expecting to be home and responsible for the house. She quit her job in exchange for her marriage when she was pregnant with the third child and hoping that this decision will improve her relationship.…

    • 1318 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The Desirable A Many times women are seen as the caregiver of their families, and society admires a woman for this reason. A woman’s job can be complex, and most of the time society put even a greater burden on them. Society believes that a woman should be able to take care of her family’s responsibilities and chores. Women must take care of their families, and many times they have to do this alone without complaining. Women have a strong character, but sometimes are unable to express what they are feeling.…

    • 287 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Tennessee Williams’ “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof” challenges gender identity with the atypical American husband and wife role representation. In class we have previously discussed the division of the American family as it is represented in “Death of a salesman” due to the inadequacy the men felt within that show. Now in “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof”, the same lack of personal acceptance is in not just in the men but also the women. The stereotypical roles of marriage call the husband to be the breadwinner and the wife to be the homemaker. This balance was broken at one time in the 1940’s calling both the women and men away from home; the men served in the army and the women worked in the factories.…

    • 728 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Disillusionment During the 1970’s We have all witnessed disillusionment at play in our daily lives. It could be finding out that some item is not as great as you thought it might be, or maybe it was a decision that turned sour after you had already gone through with it. Americans in the 1970’s witnessed disillusionment in their own homes. False news reports were forcing patriotic propaganda instead of the truth.…

    • 1358 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Human culture is filled with adversity that everyone has to face. Women make up half of the population and In every country there are women who face injustices they struggle with. I have read a few articles about issues that women have dealt with. They come from different time periods and cultural backgrounds, but they still face the same issues that women face to this day. The pieces I read were "The Empire of Images in Our World of Bodies" an articale by Susan Bordo, "Ain 't I a Women" a speech by Sojourner Truth and "Fairy Tales and Gender Stereotypes" A Students Blog by Samara Green.…

    • 867 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    However these jobs were mostly worked by women who were not yet married and once they were married their spouse was to go to work and earn the wages while women were to take care of the house. Education for women did not start escalating until the late 1870’s where women had more time to pursue careers and education while their husbands were working and the children were off at school. Women’s participation in college nearly doubled to 40 percent in the early 1900’s. Since women were able to obtain higher education, and with more free time around the house they were able to pursue their own interest. Many women were involved in charities, and/or social reforms.…

    • 1197 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Sexism and Gender Roles in the ‘70s Judy Brady, in her tongue-in-cheek essay, “I Want a Wife”, uses irony in a few different ways to address the issue of gender inequality in the spectrum of gender roles in the 1970’s and serves as a tool to grab the readers’ attention. It is also used to add humor and to expand a judgment of a man’s perspective on gender roles. She illustrates a male’s perspective of women in that era and the irony that existed between a man’s expectations of women and what was expected of him. She uses irony to address the lack of empathy men had towards their wives in regards to needs and desires. She indicates the irony of a wife contributing so much, yet there is still a low value or importance of a woman in a marriage…

    • 792 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Women of the 1970s were strong and because them women today have a different stance in society as well as the world. The views of women in the 1970s were expressed in Judy Brady’s “I want a wife” and showed the strength of women in Bonnie Smith-Yackel’s “My mother Never Worked”. After some information about the past I can go into one of the many accomplishments of women today and share some facts about the changes of the views of women.…

    • 856 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays