Happily Single, Really?
“I am happily single !” I bet you heard this line before or even you said it. We all know someone who is single and claims they’re “happy”. Even in Beyonce’s 2009 song “ Single Ladies” she had ladies from all around the world jumping for joy, because they are happily single. However, is a single lady really happy being single? The truth of the matter is, the majority of the single female population is not happy being single, they’re miserable. They continue telling themselves this lie hoping they would start to believe it. When in doubt they are using dating apps such as Tinder or praying they bump into “the one “ of their dreams like they do in fairy tales. The University Of Virginia did a study and in their finding they reported …show more content…
There 's the one who is single and claims they are having fun being single, but waits patiently for “the right one”. Then there 's the one who gets up and searches for “the right one”. The one who searches for the right one is the unhappiest of them all because when you search for something that 's not there you make things up. Anyone that comes around you think you like, but deep down inside you don 't like them. You think you like them, but you only like them because they are here. People don 't know how to delay gratification and wait. They always think the grass is greener on the other side. Ashley Fern the second most veteran female staff member of Elite Daily writes “Do your best to be ready for love, but don 't hunt it down and analyze it. We try too hard to control every aspect of our lives; falling in love should not be forced. Furthermore, every female should have standards in what they look for in a mate otherwise they would settle for anything. However, many ladies standards are too high. Some ladies try to build a guy like its build a bear. How do you expect a guy to meet your standards if you can even meet your
“I am happily single !” I bet you heard this line before or even you said it. We all know someone who is single and claims they’re “happy”. Even in Beyonce’s 2009 song “ Single Ladies” she had ladies from all around the world jumping for joy, because they are happily single. However, is a single lady really happy being single? The truth of the matter is, the majority of the single female population is not happy being single, they’re miserable. They continue telling themselves this lie hoping they would start to believe it. When in doubt they are using dating apps such as Tinder or praying they bump into “the one “ of their dreams like they do in fairy tales. The University Of Virginia did a study and in their finding they reported …show more content…
There 's the one who is single and claims they are having fun being single, but waits patiently for “the right one”. Then there 's the one who gets up and searches for “the right one”. The one who searches for the right one is the unhappiest of them all because when you search for something that 's not there you make things up. Anyone that comes around you think you like, but deep down inside you don 't like them. You think you like them, but you only like them because they are here. People don 't know how to delay gratification and wait. They always think the grass is greener on the other side. Ashley Fern the second most veteran female staff member of Elite Daily writes “Do your best to be ready for love, but don 't hunt it down and analyze it. We try too hard to control every aspect of our lives; falling in love should not be forced. Furthermore, every female should have standards in what they look for in a mate otherwise they would settle for anything. However, many ladies standards are too high. Some ladies try to build a guy like its build a bear. How do you expect a guy to meet your standards if you can even meet your