Moreover, when parents fight in front of their children can cause them to be destructive. According to the website I did, my research on (www.developementalscience.com/2014/04/03/what-happens-to-children-when-parets-fight) the author says.
“Patrick Davis of University of Rochester identifies the kinds of destructive tactics that parents use with each other that harm children: verbal aggressive like name calling, like avoidance, walking out, sulking or withdrawing, or even capitulation - giving in that might look like a solution but isn’t a true one.”.
This shows that when parents argue in front of their child, it causes them to be destructive. When kids are destructive, it can affect how they behave, which mean also cause problems with that …show more content…
according to the same website (www.developementalscience.com/2014/04/03/what-happens-to-children-when-parents-fight). It states.
“ kids pay attention to their parents emotions for information about how safe they are in the family, coming says when parents are destructive, the collateral damage to kids can last a lifetime.”
This shows that when parents fight in front of their kids it called mental image that could last a lifetime. In this blog the author talks about how her parents would fight. How it was so bad it was like the oxygen was sucked out of her room. It affected her so bad that she promised her husband to never fight in front of her kids. She didn't want the same thing that she witness as a child happen to her children. In the website she says.
“When I was a child, my parents’ fights could suck the oxygen out of a room. My mother verbally lashed my father, broke jam jars, and made outlandish threats. Her outbursts froze me in my tracks. When my father fled to work, the garage or the woods, I felt unprotected. Years later, when my husband and I decided to have children, I resolved never to fight in front of …show more content…
It's bad for the child's future. For example, it can cause that child to be destructive, insecure, and cause damage that can last a lifetime. Parents should.Understand that when they fight with their partner, there not the only ones getting hurt. They're hurting their child more than they ever known. They're also hurting their child's future. I believe that the facts that have gotten from the website are 100% true, I agree with it 100%. I also think that parents shouldn't tell their children certain things and shouldn't do certain things in front of their children. They should discuss their problems privately.This way they can prevent the things I've listed and harm towards their child. Parents should remember to stay calm when things get heated. Be an example towards their
“Patrick Davis of University of Rochester identifies the kinds of destructive tactics that parents use with each other that harm children: verbal aggressive like name calling, like avoidance, walking out, sulking or withdrawing, or even capitulation - giving in that might look like a solution but isn’t a true one.”.
This shows that when parents argue in front of their child, it causes them to be destructive. When kids are destructive, it can affect how they behave, which mean also cause problems with that …show more content…
according to the same website (www.developementalscience.com/2014/04/03/what-happens-to-children-when-parents-fight). It states.
“ kids pay attention to their parents emotions for information about how safe they are in the family, coming says when parents are destructive, the collateral damage to kids can last a lifetime.”
This shows that when parents fight in front of their kids it called mental image that could last a lifetime. In this blog the author talks about how her parents would fight. How it was so bad it was like the oxygen was sucked out of her room. It affected her so bad that she promised her husband to never fight in front of her kids. She didn't want the same thing that she witness as a child happen to her children. In the website she says.
“When I was a child, my parents’ fights could suck the oxygen out of a room. My mother verbally lashed my father, broke jam jars, and made outlandish threats. Her outbursts froze me in my tracks. When my father fled to work, the garage or the woods, I felt unprotected. Years later, when my husband and I decided to have children, I resolved never to fight in front of …show more content…
It's bad for the child's future. For example, it can cause that child to be destructive, insecure, and cause damage that can last a lifetime. Parents should.Understand that when they fight with their partner, there not the only ones getting hurt. They're hurting their child more than they ever known. They're also hurting their child's future. I believe that the facts that have gotten from the website are 100% true, I agree with it 100%. I also think that parents shouldn't tell their children certain things and shouldn't do certain things in front of their children. They should discuss their problems privately.This way they can prevent the things I've listed and harm towards their child. Parents should remember to stay calm when things get heated. Be an example towards their