There are periods in people’s lives that alter them. My transformation came about when my daughter was born. My unabridged existence reformed with her birth, nevertheless change can be a pleasant occurrence even when it's not expected. When my Girlfriend initially revealed to me that we were to have a child I was bursting with excitement. I was so delighted that I was going to be a father, I was also worried. I was young 18 at the time with no job I had no idea how to take care of a kid let alone myself. My girlfriend and I were barely getting by. I believe I had a very good reason to worry. Now my entire life was headed for a change and I was unsure if I was even prepared. I did not know at the time what a positive effect this experience would encompass on my life, no matter the hardships I endured to provide my family with a comfortable life. The worrying began early due to the fact she was born with jaundice and was premature. After spending a few days in the incubator she would be fine. At the time I was working two jobs sometimes working a double when I could, leaving no room for sleep, which didn’t bother me one bit. I was there for my daughter and that’s all that …show more content…
As some parents know it can be extremely stressful at times. Their words of wisdom and techniques of baby care help the wife and I right along. After several months for the first time all was well until I had to tell my wife I lost my job. I sat my wife down to tell her the news. She told me not to worry that she still had her job and that I would find another soon. Several months past, I still had no job, it was beginning to get frustrating. My wife believed I was not trying hard enough so it started to ruin our relationship, we were borrowing money from people something that I am not proud of doing. I was failing at being a father and