Through this she teaches readers that being oneself is the way one should be. This takes place at the beginning of the novel, when Scout wishes for approval.“ I was not so sure, but Jem told me I was being a girl, that girls always imagined things, that's why other people hated them so, and if I started behaving like one I could just go off and find some to play with” (Lee 45). Scout has grown up without a mother, and her only mother-like figure is Calpurnia, her housekeeper, who lets Scout be whoever she wants like her father, Atticus, has done. Jem wishes for Scout to not be “girly”, this making Scout worry about not having approval from her older brother Jem, so she spends time with him hoping for approval. Scout does not care what others think of her, unless it is Jem. Scout wanting to make friends with her brother defies the southern expectation of young girls, for example; “ I should rejoice to see you form friendships with good, high-minded, intelligent, gentle mannered girls of your own age” (Starrett 155). Young females are expected to spend time with other young females by playing stereotypical games like tea party and dress up. Scout does not wish to participate in this type of entertainment, simply because she like to play outside instead, with her brother Jem. Scout shows the reader that an eight year old should not have to worry about who she is supposed to spend time
Through this she teaches readers that being oneself is the way one should be. This takes place at the beginning of the novel, when Scout wishes for approval.“ I was not so sure, but Jem told me I was being a girl, that girls always imagined things, that's why other people hated them so, and if I started behaving like one I could just go off and find some to play with” (Lee 45). Scout has grown up without a mother, and her only mother-like figure is Calpurnia, her housekeeper, who lets Scout be whoever she wants like her father, Atticus, has done. Jem wishes for Scout to not be “girly”, this making Scout worry about not having approval from her older brother Jem, so she spends time with him hoping for approval. Scout does not care what others think of her, unless it is Jem. Scout wanting to make friends with her brother defies the southern expectation of young girls, for example; “ I should rejoice to see you form friendships with good, high-minded, intelligent, gentle mannered girls of your own age” (Starrett 155). Young females are expected to spend time with other young females by playing stereotypical games like tea party and dress up. Scout does not wish to participate in this type of entertainment, simply because she like to play outside instead, with her brother Jem. Scout shows the reader that an eight year old should not have to worry about who she is supposed to spend time