What Is My Identity

So, for example, let's say, given that same identity we discussed above, I'm being challenged now to speak up to someone I've always been afraid of angering or displeasing. My fear comes up and tells me that I should do what I've always done, appease them. But my newfound authenticity speaks up and says that I want something different this time. I want that certain thing, and that old way of interacting is not getting me that. My old fearful identity or self is now tearing out its hair in terror; "Oh my God you are so going to screw this up for me, when you tell them what you really want!" But, my authentic self, because it is a centered and grounded place inside of me, responds to that fear by saying, "No matter what happens, we are going to figure it out." And slowly over time, the fear begins to recognize the truth of that response, and the old identity begins to slowly dissolve into the loving arms of the authentic self. Almost sounds …show more content…
Then after one of the representatives nodded subtly, everyone got up and left. In the meantime, of course, soldiers and civilians were continuing to die. Motivational orientation (MO) refers to one bargainer's attitudinal disposition toward another (Rubin & Brown, 1975). Better known as “attitude”
There are three types of motivational orientation or Attitudes: cooperative, individualistic, and competitive. The Korean Conflict was clear example of competitive motivation. You may know of estranged friends or family members who went to their graves without ever addressing the problem that drove them apart. The goal is to try and do better. “Be the change you want to see in the world”, as they say. Unfortunately, the need for control is the central human motivation, to control one’s own environment and to have control over one’s own tasks and any aspect of decision