Are You Making Yourself Or Someone Else Proud
That warm felling that you feel inside when you achieve an act of kindness or finish a difficult task is something that each of us has experienced a least once in our lives. Something as simple as leaning a stranger a handed or completing that essay that is due the next day each make us feel better about ourselves. Each makes us feel like we have accomplished something. But do we have that feeling because we achieve that challenging task or is it because we have gained approval or acceptance from those around us. Could we be only making ourselves feel warm or does it make the person that we are helping fell that warm felling because you showed that you care enough to help them.
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Does that warm feeling change, feel the same or do you feel worst because you can’t help that person the same way that they helped you. Could you help that person in the future? Each time I help a person with a door I feel good but trend to feel more underappreciated because they don’t say thank you or even acknowledge my presents for that matter. But for those rare time that the person that I helped, helps me by giving me approval and accepts and that I truly help them is something that I looked forward towards each time I help a person. But many times we don’t ask for help because we have the fear of being judge or criticized for whatever task that we are try to achieve. In all sense does the task even matter or are we just try to make our self-proud. Many of us think that we can’t do something just because we lack a certain ability, look, or knowledge but many of things we have today were once an idea, a dream and each came with its own challenges with approval and acceptance but in the end it made not only the person who had the idea proud but made a lot of other people …show more content…
The reason why we had to brought our drawings and projects home so our parents could to see. When I was growing up playing soccer I was always compared to my dad at my age. My dad was one of the top defensive players in the region during his playing days and ever time I hit a milestone I not only felt proud for myself but I also felt like I made my dad proud and that I gain his approval and acceptance because I was up to his standard. Young children always want to be notice by their parents whether it is feeling in your parent’s shoes or show them a nice drawing you did in class. We not only what say, “wow I did that” but we also want them to say, “wow they did that” each give us the sense of accomplishment.
Whether its only for you or from others around us we what to feel proud. We want that warm feeling inside whether its from ourselves or a stranger each time we complete a task help us feel like we have gained acceptance and approval from not only ourselves but from others around us we want the feel like we are a step ahead of the next person. So do we want to be proud of ourselves or are we trying to make someone else proud. The answer is mostly for ourselves but the feeling changes when we make someone else proud for something that we
That warm felling that you feel inside when you achieve an act of kindness or finish a difficult task is something that each of us has experienced a least once in our lives. Something as simple as leaning a stranger a handed or completing that essay that is due the next day each make us feel better about ourselves. Each makes us feel like we have accomplished something. But do we have that feeling because we achieve that challenging task or is it because we have gained approval or acceptance from those around us. Could we be only making ourselves feel warm or does it make the person that we are helping fell that warm felling because you showed that you care enough to help them.
Daily we fight to …show more content…
Does that warm feeling change, feel the same or do you feel worst because you can’t help that person the same way that they helped you. Could you help that person in the future? Each time I help a person with a door I feel good but trend to feel more underappreciated because they don’t say thank you or even acknowledge my presents for that matter. But for those rare time that the person that I helped, helps me by giving me approval and accepts and that I truly help them is something that I looked forward towards each time I help a person. But many times we don’t ask for help because we have the fear of being judge or criticized for whatever task that we are try to achieve. In all sense does the task even matter or are we just try to make our self-proud. Many of us think that we can’t do something just because we lack a certain ability, look, or knowledge but many of things we have today were once an idea, a dream and each came with its own challenges with approval and acceptance but in the end it made not only the person who had the idea proud but made a lot of other people …show more content…
The reason why we had to brought our drawings and projects home so our parents could to see. When I was growing up playing soccer I was always compared to my dad at my age. My dad was one of the top defensive players in the region during his playing days and ever time I hit a milestone I not only felt proud for myself but I also felt like I made my dad proud and that I gain his approval and acceptance because I was up to his standard. Young children always want to be notice by their parents whether it is feeling in your parent’s shoes or show them a nice drawing you did in class. We not only what say, “wow I did that” but we also want them to say, “wow they did that” each give us the sense of accomplishment.
Whether its only for you or from others around us we what to feel proud. We want that warm feeling inside whether its from ourselves or a stranger each time we complete a task help us feel like we have gained acceptance and approval from not only ourselves but from others around us we want the feel like we are a step ahead of the next person. So do we want to be proud of ourselves or are we trying to make someone else proud. The answer is mostly for ourselves but the feeling changes when we make someone else proud for something that we