“I remember the first time I heard the word nigger. In my third-grade class, our math tests were being passed down the rows, and as I handed the papers to a little boy in back of me, I remarked that once again he had received a much lower mark than I did. He snatched up his test from me and spit out that word. Had he called me a nymphomaniac or a necrophiliac I couldn’t have been more puzzled. I didn’t know what a nigger was, but I knew that whatever it meant, it was something he shouldn’t have called me.” Page …show more content…
She learned a word that she assumed she had never heard before. However, in retrospect she felt that her young memory wasn’t accurate. “Thinking back, I realize that this could not have been the first time the word was used in my presence.” Page 249. She then goes on to talk about the different ways that the n word could be used, without the negative context. Tone of voice can greatly affect the message a person is trying to convey. It is extremely easy to snap at people when you are feeling frustrated or annoyed, however a person is still responsible for their own actions. The tone of a person’s voice can change a word that is generally used in a humorous or even affectionate way into a hateful