Growing up I was the second child, my sister and I was seven years apart. My childhood days consisted of me sitting in my room playing with my toys. I only played with other children, if my cousins came over. I was very different; I was a tall boy with short hair. I didn’t like the skin I was in too much, because I always got picked on in school.…
My childhood in New York City was very difficult for me. I grow up in a predominantly Hispanic Dominican decent neighborhood in the upper Manhattan area called Washington Heights. Washington Heights in the early 1990’s was the heart of the drug trade. At one point in the 1990’s it was considered one of the worst neighborhoods to raise a child. I remember in the news, the news anchor reported that New York City was recognized as the crime capital in the 1950's through the early 1990's.…
Joseph Campbell studied ancient greek mythology. After studying, the American Mythologist, Writer, and Lecturer, discovered that heroes in almost every story follow this same path called the Heroic Journey. He figured this out by seeing that all the heroes go through stages. For example, they refuse, they have tests/allies/enemies, and they are rewarded at the end of their journey. Everybody is a hero in their own story if you think about it.…
JR is a 26-year-old Persian male who lives in Fresno. This interview took place on 03/17/17 at 1330. The story of his life based on the interview showed that this person is in recovery from a very heavy addiction to drugs. When I asked the person about his life story he gave me the following information. I was three years old when my mother divorced my father because of his addiction to drugs.…
People do not tend to stand up for others or for themselves, because they think people will judge them. Letting the world know who you are is all that matters, be proud of yourself and have goodness in your heart. This reminds me of the time I stood up to and for my dad who I love, but likes to blame things on me because he has a drinking problem. He did not like the way I raised myself nor was he proud of the person I am. This is kind of like Elizabeth Proctor who stood up for someone she loved, but also for herself.…
M is for Memo The letter M is for Memo. That is my dads nickname, it is short for Guillermo. It does not bother him when people call him by his nickname, he doesn't mind.…
Papa Dozier I found out a couple months ago, I was going to be Papa Dozier. I started to ask myself, “what kind of parent do I want to be?” I was raised in a house hold that was full of alcohol and drug use. With the alcohol and drug use came emotional and physical abuse. Now, do I fallow in my parent’s footsteps, or do I make a choice to take action to form my own path from their mistakes?…
"A Father Figure” This is for all the girls whose fathers broke their heart before any boy could. Dealing with an abusive father from before I could remember to around fifteen years old, has been a major problem that I have had difficulties solving in my life. My father has taught me things in life that I would have never have learned if it wasn’t for what he put me through. From the extreme abuse to suicidal thoughts, it’s been tough to make the best out of my past, until the moment everything went for a loop.…
There are some people in this world who have gone through a little more than everyone else to get where they are now. Some people have to suffer through abusive parents or drug addict family members, maybe deaths of people they love when they’re young or maybe they’re dirt poor. No matter the circumstance they’re people that have to deal with this, and then there’s those of us that get a “get out of jail free card” in life. My dad was not one of those people, he went through a lot to get to where he is now. My dad learned how to be a man through fighting for his family, being taught to be kind and loving, and learning that family is irreplaceable.…
No friends Very lonely No one likes me The household that I came from was not very good or positive. My father was not around very much, and not for work. Even though we lived with him. I had just moved to Poughkeepsie when I was 10yr old.…
I believe that parents should not spank there kids when they are doing something "wrong". The thing is to drive foolishness out. You have to remember this is discipline and it is not supposed to be cruel punishment. It is for them to learn something is wrong, its not for you. I don't think you should ever, ever, discipline out of anger.…
I'm considered a very logical person. I don't believe in what does not exist. Of it is not here then it is not real, if it isn't proven then it does not exist. A physicalist you could say.…
One moment I felt older and leaned a lesson in my life was when I was twelve years old in florida running in the front yard when my mom had told me not to run around by the rocks. But I still had and ran straight into a rock with my foot, I broke my toe and part of my foot. So when i was twelve running and my mom had told me not to, i had not listened and did not care what she had said, so as i was running i smashed my toe into a rock and felt terrible for not trusting my mother. One reason is that I learned my lesson, I should always trust in my parents for what they tell me.…
My dad told me a story about his mom more than once. He had to go get his mother a six pack on his lunch break from school and didn’t get to eat that day. He never forgot about it or got over it. He also said she hit him more often than necessary. Maybe that’s why he did the same to me.…
Growing Up in a Broken Home and What it Has Taught Me Growing up I had typical childhood experiences, but unlike some of you I grew up in a broken home. Many people would say I got the short end of the stick; however, I believe it has in some ways made me a better person. It was not because of the broken home, tons of other people grew up that way, it was the completely opposite lifestyles I observed in both homes that changed me. It has taught me many life lessons, including the fact that a man does not have to be your father to be a dad.…