Case Study: Holding My Breath

In the twelfth case study, “Holding My Breath,” we explore the role of relationships in the life of a young man named Andy as he explores and accepts his sexual identity. His story chronicles his battles with his sexuality starting from elementary school until college as his friends help him discover who he really is. Until he was in college, Andy lived his life as a closeted homosexual after interactions with some of his close friends caused him to realize his true desires for the same sex. His story also explores how his romantic relationships during college helped him be at ease with who he is by providing support and inspiration to live his life openly as a homosexual man. All the while, his family plays a role in helping him adopt his masculine athlete identity and further helps him …show more content…
Growing up, I was never comfortable with being myself at school due to the way that I may be perceived by my peers. When I was able to be myself, I managed to form a few close friendships with people who accepted me for who I am. These friends put me at ease by not judging me for the eccentricities that I thought I had. They also helped encourage me to do some of the things that I was scared to do or needed a push of motivation in order to do. My friends essentially helped me come out of my cocoon of shyness and blossom into the social butterfly that I will be one day. My family also supported and encouraged me to do some things that I typically did not do but wanted to. No matter what activity was, my family helped me get whatever I needed and also supported me by showing up at various performances and events. Though this act may seem minuscule, it meant a lot to know that I had people who were proud of me and would always love me no matter if I succeeded or failed. Altogether, I know that without the support of my friends and family, I would not be the person that I am