We Have To Lie Research Paper

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I may have to say that I agree with this statement. Why? Because I feel that it is true, it’s nearly impossible for me to believe 100% in someone, even my family. We have lied to people even to the ones we love the most for many reasons, either it is for their own sakes or for our sakes.
Sometimes to please people, we have to lie. At least not telling them the whole truth. In a 1996 study where 147 people between the ages of 18 and 71 kept a diary of all the lies they told for a week, people lie once or twice a day, as often as brushing their teeth or having snacks. The lies are mostly for small causes such as, “you look lovely with that dress”, “I already had lunch”, “I have to go”. It is revealed that extroverts are the most likely to lie

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