Vondenberger's Catholics, Marriage And Divorce

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The book catholics, marriage and divorce: REAL PEOPLE, REAL QUESTIONS by Victoria Vondenberger is filled with many answers on the sacrament of Matrimony. The book is a “Q&A” or question and answer book. It is all factual and very straightforward and provides lots of evidence. The book is divided into three parts: things to consider before marriage, divorce and the Catholic Church and the tribunal process. Vondenberger starts out with the fact that marriage is a sacrament, you have to prepare for it like you do for any other sacrament. Each wedding is a profound moment of lifetime commitment that should not be taken lightly. She then moves on to discuss the Catholic “status” after a divorce and whether or not it is a sin. Vondenberger says that, …show more content…
Regular adoption should also be okay, because we are technically adoptive children of God and God would want us to do so!
4. If a priest or minister is in the state of mortal sin, would that affect the couple receiving the Sacrament of Matrimony (or would it make the marriage non sacramental/invalid)?
ANSWER: Even though a priest should not be in the state of sin, it does not affect the couple receiving the Sacrament. But in the Sacrament of the Eucharist, if a priest is in the state of mortal sin or does not perform the proper matter and form the consecration would not occur.
5. Is there a limit to how many times you can get remarried in the Catholic Church?
ANSWER: Well, first off, in order to get remarried you would have to have received an annulment. If you receive a divorce, but no annulment then you are still married in the eyes of the Catholic Church. The church carefully examines the couple’s divorce/separation and then states that, “From the very beginning, something was lacking that was necessary for this relationship to be called a marriage” meaning it never exist. I do think there's a limit because there shouldn't be a reason to why someone would need to get married many times. Nor, do I think the Church would grant many annulments in order for to get married in the

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