Violating Social Norms Research Paper

Social norms are defined as types or behaviors, or rules of behavior, that due to conformity, are deemed as acceptable. Our social behavior is directed by these social norms because if we did not follows these dorms, then society would shun us, or respond in a negative way. Also, due to our need to fit in and conform we follows these norms. I have seen a few times social norms be violated. Once at a college reunion with my mother, I saw an adult man rudely invade my friend’s personal space by grabbing her wrist and acting aggressive. Such an action is deemed a violation of social norms because our society believe that adults should not be aggressive towards teens and children. Another time I have seen a violating of a norm was when I learned of a teacher having a relationship with underage girl in my school. This is a violation of social norms as well because our society looks down, …show more content…
Typically, a hug (between friends and family) last no longer than a few seconds. It is only in certain situations hugs can be extended for a period of time (e.g. a hug for comfort to ease someone’s distress or emotional pain). I decided that I would hug the friends that I recently made at this program for an extended amount of time, including back rubs and pats. I thought of this idea because I have been hugged by people for slightly too long and became uncomfortable. I had wanted to see if other people became unfortable like me. At first I was very surprised about how easily my new friends let me hug them. I thought they would have been confused at such an out of the blue request. An initial awkwardness was felt when the hug was extended but I quickly became comfortable with the situation and my friends did not seem fazed by the experience. When we pulled apart, most of my friends would laugh, nodding in understanding as I explain why I hugged them for so long. There was no air of awkwardness