Using Genderlect Styles and Relational Dialectics to Examine Communication Problems in Marriages
Scholar C. Kenemore
Winona State University
Examining Communication Problems in Marriages using Genderlect Styles and Relational Dialectics.
Introduction “Till death do us part” isn’t really the case anymore. In the United States alone, researchers predict that 40-50% of couples getting married will get divorced, and 60% of 2nd marriages will get divorced (Gottman). The average marriage is also only seven years long. These statistics can be alarming and very scary to anyone who plans on having their “happily ever after” someday. When researching why couples get divorced, many state that they grew apart or how their spouse hid psychological problems. These are valid reasons, but the most common reason found was several months of arguing and disappointments. This leads to the ability to communicate with their significant other to deteriorate. Communication is key when it comes to any kind of relationship. The relational dialectics theory and genderlect styles will be used to explain why communication problems occur in marriages and how to avoid these issues. Starting off, this …show more content…
One major stressor in marriage today is money, according to Elizabeth Scott (2014). She explains how generally when couples fight about money, it has to really do with something different like power roles in the marriage or different values. To resolve this issue, couples must remain calm and keep their tempers under control. Many times one spouse says something they cannot take back and this can be detrimental to the relationship. Next, get a clear view of the financial situation, accept it and work on a path to a better financial future together. Remaining connected and communication effectively will solve these problems right
Scholar C. Kenemore
Winona State University
Examining Communication Problems in Marriages using Genderlect Styles and Relational Dialectics.
Introduction “Till death do us part” isn’t really the case anymore. In the United States alone, researchers predict that 40-50% of couples getting married will get divorced, and 60% of 2nd marriages will get divorced (Gottman). The average marriage is also only seven years long. These statistics can be alarming and very scary to anyone who plans on having their “happily ever after” someday. When researching why couples get divorced, many state that they grew apart or how their spouse hid psychological problems. These are valid reasons, but the most common reason found was several months of arguing and disappointments. This leads to the ability to communicate with their significant other to deteriorate. Communication is key when it comes to any kind of relationship. The relational dialectics theory and genderlect styles will be used to explain why communication problems occur in marriages and how to avoid these issues. Starting off, this …show more content…
One major stressor in marriage today is money, according to Elizabeth Scott (2014). She explains how generally when couples fight about money, it has to really do with something different like power roles in the marriage or different values. To resolve this issue, couples must remain calm and keep their tempers under control. Many times one spouse says something they cannot take back and this can be detrimental to the relationship. Next, get a clear view of the financial situation, accept it and work on a path to a better financial future together. Remaining connected and communication effectively will solve these problems right