Unbreakable Bond In The Kite Runner By Khaled Hosseini

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What does it take to make that unbreakable bond between a father and son? A bond that can be stronger than any other. To most people it comes naturally but in the book, The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini, the main character, Amir, has a tougher time creating this bond. In his case, he has to win something, for his father to put him on a pedestal. There is nothing wrong with his father, Baba, it is just that in the beginning they just do not have very much in common. In chapter 7 there is a point where they really bond and then their relationship builds off of it. The point in the story is when Amir wins the kite-flying competition. Amir says, "We won! We won!' was all I could say. This wasn't happening. In a moment, I'd blink and rouse from this …show more content…
Get dressed. Wait for Baba. Give up. Back to my old life. Then I saw Baba on our roof. He was standing on the edge, pumping both of his fists. Hollering and clapping. And right there was the single greatest moment of my twelve years of life, seeing Baba on that roof, proud of me at last" (66).
The part in this story makes me so sad because although it is a happy scene, it is disappointing. For Amir's whole life so far all he wants is to have a relationship with his father but the way that he gets it is not really right. Baba should love him for him and not because he won something. I think that in the beginning Baba just loves Amir as a son, just not more than that because they never really bond or do anything together. In the beginning of the story Baba thinks that Amir is missing something. Could it be a relationship with his father? One part of this quote that stood out to me is when Amir says, "Wait for

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