Type B Personality Traits

I am a type A personality and the color that best represents me from the test is red. I chose to give this personality test to a good guy friend of mine and he has a type B personality as well as blue best representing him. I thought that giving this test to a guy would allow me to see where he stands in terms of his personality and how a color could really describe him as a person. He has been a great friend of mine for more than 5 years and having him complete this test will see if how he is as a person directly correlates to a specific personality type and color.
Seeing that I am a red personality makes most perfect sense to me when I look at all the other descriptions of the other colors. Growing up, I was always a leader and not so much …show more content…
This miscommunication started with the day being my 18th birthday and growing up, I never really expressed with my friends that I hated surprises. Well, I was not feeling 100% that particular day and so my friends, including the guy friend who I chose to give the personality test to decide to throw me a surprise birthday dinner as well as inviting some old high school friends whom I have not talked to in years. Getting ready for my dinner, which at that moment, I was planning to just see 5 of my very good and close friends. When we were all on the way to the restaurant, my guy friend was constantly on his phone texting and laughing as well as my other friends in the car. At that moment, I knew they had planned something and they did not want me to know about it. As I was walking into the restaurant, I could see a big table with balloon on the table and bags of gifts and noticed immediately that it was a table for 10. I was having a small amount of anxiety and once I sat down, everyone came out including my high school friend, whom I did not want to see especially on my birthday dinner. After the dinner and everyone went home, I confronted my guy friend and told him that I did not appreciate that surprise. I was very angry because I only wanted to spend my birthday with my close friends and then he brought old friends which I did not like anymore. I was extremely harsh to …show more content…
Someone might have meant to say something one way and the other person might take it a totally different way. I definitely feel that being able to try and understand the differences among different people is a positive asset in helping separate misunderstandings among people. Nonetheless, I feel that people with different personality handle communicating with one another with much precaution. They are at times afraid to step on the other person toes because they feel that if they say something, it could turn south fast. I definitely think when different personalities communicate, they are aware of the other person and they try not to say something that could cause a contrary response. Moreover, instead of just thinking about ourselves, we need to be more respectful of other personality types and their opinions. Most often, people are not just trying to get you angry, but it is because they communicate differently than you, and sometimes you just need to try and understand and see things from their point of view. When you learn to recognize what personality type you are, you are much more capable of understanding yourself and what communication styles works best for you versus the ones that is less practical. Furthermore, when we understand the personalities of people around us, we can complete certain tasks faster, establish stronger friendships, and form a more welcoming