True Love And Infatuation In Shakespeare's Romeo And Juliet

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There are many differences between true love and infatuation. Love is a slow process because the two people are getting to know each other. But, infatuation happens quickly and the two people do not know each other well. Love is when a person wants what is best for their partner because they consider the needs and wants that their partner has. But, infatuation is when a person wants what is best for themselves because they do not care about their partner’s needs and wants. Love is a deeper connection because a couple would have feelings for each other. However, infatuation is based on appearance because a couple love each other based on their looks. In Romeo and Juliet, written by William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet love each other because of their looks that drew them to each other. Shakespeare’s play is …show more content…
Romeo decides to attend the Capulet’s party without an invitation from the Capulets because he wanted to get a good glimpse of Rosaline that he has a crush on. When Romeo saw Juliet across the room, he started talking to himself, “It seems she hangs upon the cheek of night As a rich jewel in an Ethiop’s ear – Beauty too rich for use, for earth too dear: So shows a snowy dove trooping with crows” (Shakespeare 1.5.44-47). Romeo’s simile compares Juliet to an earring hanging on the cheek of an African that stands out. He means that he is attracted to Juliet because she is beautiful. Juliet’s beauty makes Romeo view it as too precious for everyday use and also he sees it too powerful for earth to bear. Romeo’s metaphor compares doves which is Juliet to the crows which is the other women. He says that Juliet stands out better than the other women like a dove in a crowd of crows and he means that she is beautiful, pure and innocent like a dove. Also he says that she is more attractive than any other women which makes him want to woo

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