Bereavement relates to the deprivation of someone by death. For an individual, the death of a love one can be considered one of the greatest losses one may have. Nonetheless, an individual may also have feelings of bereavement when having other losses, such as the loss of health, the end of an important relationship, or health loss by someone close to the individual. Another healthy response to loss is grief. All individuals have different feelings of grief, but there are some particular stages to the process of mourning experienced by the individual.…
Beah came so close to reuniting with his family, but time was not in his favor. Beah is traveling on the outskirts of villages where he meets a man named Ngot Gasemu who explains that his family is in the village down the hill. Ismael is overwhelmed with joy and starts going towards the village but then gunshots are followed by screams and cries. Once the gunshots ended, Beah went to the village to see that is was on fire and he could not find his family. He became overwhelmed with anger hit Gasemu right on his nose (94-96).…
Since my Dad died I have fallen into my own soul, I have tried to love myself but all I really love is what I am passionate about, reading, writing and learning. Grief can never take away the passion in my heart for becoming the person I need to become,…
When i cry out with grief, no one hears me but Jesus (Ain’t). Sometimes I have nightmares of that very moment and wake up in sweaty panic. I have no idea where my mom or dad are now but I miss them very much. Bob and Mary brought me to Antebellum, Georgia to take care of their kids Jake and Chase.…
The first time I experienced the death of a loved one and had the ability to really understand it, I was about nine, my great grandmother had just died. For a long time I felt the grief of her death as confusion and loss. My family took their time to explain to me, that while it was okay to be sad, it was important to remember that we were more sad than she was. The end of her painful time on earth had stopped and she was with my great grandfather in Heaven, where eventually all of us who believed would be. Of course I continued to mourn for her, but I knew that Christ’s death meant that one day I would see her…
I know that sounds terrible, but it’s how I deal with bad news. After I came to the realization, I became a rock for my mom. I went to all of her doctors’ appointments with her. I stayed every night with her in the hospital after her surgery, and then drove to school the next morning. Then I would drive back down after school, and repeat.…
His death still is painful but a lot has been learned thankfully. After losing my father, I now know that I need to enjoy time with family, live the life in front of me with happiness, and I should make cherish special memories that come amongst myself. This moment was painful because I never saw him on life support, weighing as much as a young teenager, or not having the capability to walk to the mailbox. On my dad’s side of the family, we wouldn’t see each other as often as my mother’s.…
I lost my grandmother when I was in my second year of college. My whole world collapsed as one of the brightest stars of my life, a light that guided me, had suddenly disappeared into the night. I had nowhere to turn, panic attacks would set in, seeing my other grandparents would cause such thoughts, I would spiral out emotionally. I worked to go to community college, but there was no heart in work or school, I was only getting by. I had help from family and friends, but I never had it within me to change.…
Yusef Komunyakaa is a creative writer who specialized in poetry, he was born Bogalusa, Louisiana in 1947. Once Yusef graduated from high school he entered the army and served in the Vietnam War. Once he returned from the war he was awarded a bronze star and continued to get more degrees involved in writing. Yusef wrote several books of poetry. In one of the books about the Vietnam War, the final poem is titled facing it.…
Grief and Loss Loss is a necessary and essential experience in human life. As we grow we abandon our favorite objects, like toys or a blanket, we say goodbye to places and people, we are giving up on teenage dreams and hopes of becoming famous artists or performers. These experiences allow us to change, develop, fulfill, and explore our potential. Therefore, loss is not always beneficial, some losses are more difficult to accept than others, and they can be devastating. The emotional response to debilitating loss refers to grief or bereavement which involves life’s changes, the way a person thinks, feels, and expresses themselves.…
Losing my father at a young age did not only take a toll on me, but my 3 siblings as well. Death can sometimes break a family apart, but for mine it did the opposite. A person will not understand how tough losing a parent is until it is experienced. Then again, no one knows the joy of gaining a parent either. I am strong because I have lost, and I am successful because I have gained.…
Death is final with no point of return and extremely painful for the ones left behind to grieve. This was especially true for me when I lost my mother. Losing her was one of the most difficulty experiences in my life because I was not prepared for her death. Looking back on the situation, there was nothing for which to prepare; she was only fifty-one years old. I knew her health was not the best; however, the diagnosed health problems were not what killed her.…
There were days where I would cry and other where I would not say a thing. Grieving for a loss was hard as a kid because I did not know why and what grieving was at the…
We all die. It’s an inevitable truth that we all face. Although we don’t know when death will catch up to us, we know that it’s one of the few things that you can count on in the world. Recently, there has a been a strong focus on helping individuals prepare for death and assist them in dying well. It’s counter-intuitive, to think about death as we are often told to embrace life, but since the dying process is the last chance you have to embrace life, preparing for it will hopefully enable you a deeper sense of satisfaction and provide closure.…
It is a horrible feeling that many people have to deal with at different times in their lives. Sorrow can be dealt with in various ways. You can have someone there to be with you. But, many learn how to deal with it themselves or even control it. But every person is different and has their own way of dealing with it.…