Even though relaxed parenting styles can make the children gain responsibility and make them independent, it is a parent's responsibility to take care of their children instead of letting their kids fend for themselves and survive on their own strength; the parents should take responsibility for nurturing their children to help them become strong and independent people. With relaxed parenting styles children have a no sense of dependence on anyone, they lack social skills, and they can become inconsistent when given rules to follow. There is a place and time for everything, but when children are not taught the right fro the wrong the grow up not knowing the rules and responsibilities that come with being an adult.
Growing up without parents …show more content…
It is up to each individual to choose whether to follow or break these sets of rules. For a family that has never depended on rules or regulations, there can be some nonconformity when it comes to where they have to follow the rules that have been placed. People in this place and time tend to follow the rules where they go because they have rules at home. There are those that let us be honest, they would not follow a rule, even if it was the simplest one out there; mainly because they don’t have a stable structure or rules to follow at home. Rules are important, they keep things from becoming chaotic. From birth children learn what things are right and what are wrong. They learn when and where certain things are appropriate, but if they are never taught from the time that they are little how do people expect to act once they are grown up. In the book The Glass Castle the walls children are subjected to no rules. Jeannette’s mom told her children to continue playing in a water fountain when people were telling them to get out. This is actually an disservice to the Wall’s children, and those children that their parents also don’t set rules and regulations. I had a friend when I was little, she was a very sweet and very independent girl. She lived with her grandmother and she had no chores or work to do around the house. Her grandmother allowed her to do anything that she wanted to. She was very
Growing up without parents …show more content…
It is up to each individual to choose whether to follow or break these sets of rules. For a family that has never depended on rules or regulations, there can be some nonconformity when it comes to where they have to follow the rules that have been placed. People in this place and time tend to follow the rules where they go because they have rules at home. There are those that let us be honest, they would not follow a rule, even if it was the simplest one out there; mainly because they don’t have a stable structure or rules to follow at home. Rules are important, they keep things from becoming chaotic. From birth children learn what things are right and what are wrong. They learn when and where certain things are appropriate, but if they are never taught from the time that they are little how do people expect to act once they are grown up. In the book The Glass Castle the walls children are subjected to no rules. Jeannette’s mom told her children to continue playing in a water fountain when people were telling them to get out. This is actually an disservice to the Wall’s children, and those children that their parents also don’t set rules and regulations. I had a friend when I was little, she was a very sweet and very independent girl. She lived with her grandmother and she had no chores or work to do around the house. Her grandmother allowed her to do anything that she wanted to. She was very