Love is not all about money, things, sweet names, big house, flowers, or fancy furniture. Love is about caring, listening, encouraging, and not judging or criticising your partner. Torvald was not in love with Nora in the first act; he only had that idea that he loved his wife. He did not understand what it really means to be in love with someone. He thought just because he was calling her all those sweet names and giving her money he was in love with her. Torvald kept judging and telling her about not knowing how to manage the money. "Has my little spendthrift been wasting money again... still, you know, we can't spend money recklessly." (Page 794). Torvald and Nora's family seemed like it was a happy family and they were in love with each
