They simply do not understand rules and are acting on their impulses, so simple redirection is the best tactic at this stage (Parlakian and Lerner). For children 18 to 36 months, there is a progression in the eagerness to make their own choices. For example, if you ask them to eat their vegetables and they refuse, they are exhibiting defiance because they are understanding that they have their own thoughts and feelings which may be different from other’s thoughts and feelings (Parlakian and Lerner). This developmental time period of toddlerhood is representative of the child beginning to understand the he or she is separate from you and can exhibit some control over his or her world (Parlakian and
They simply do not understand rules and are acting on their impulses, so simple redirection is the best tactic at this stage (Parlakian and Lerner). For children 18 to 36 months, there is a progression in the eagerness to make their own choices. For example, if you ask them to eat their vegetables and they refuse, they are exhibiting defiance because they are understanding that they have their own thoughts and feelings which may be different from other’s thoughts and feelings (Parlakian and Lerner). This developmental time period of toddlerhood is representative of the child beginning to understand the he or she is separate from you and can exhibit some control over his or her world (Parlakian and